Website Blog entry for January, 2010

January 25th, 2010

I for one am breathing a sigh of relief that the healthcare bill in Congress and the Senate will be set aside for the time being so that the Obama administration can concentrate on creating more jobs and stimulating the economy, areas of vital interest to all the citizenry of our country.  Our healthcare system is way too important to allow such a mammoth, ill-conceived, politically-motivated piece of legislation to be rammed through the legislative process in the dark of night.

The old saying that if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck it probably is a duck is undoubtedly true about this unpopular health care legislation.  Like everyone else in this country, I’d like to see my health care costs reduced, but it became very clear to those of us who followed it closely in the last months that that wasn’t going to happen in the Senate’s version or Congress’s version of the bill.  So what good was it?

Give it a rest I say and come back in awhile with both teams on board to work on a plan that substantially reduces the waste and fraud in the Medicare system first.  Have them also get busy opening up the individual state markets so that the increased competition among health care insurance companies can work to make costs fair to the consumers.  And let them start working on reducing the exorbitant medical malpractice awards which so significantly affect our health care costs.  We shouldn’t throw our seniors under the bus of a newly-minted, gargantuan bureaucratic policy which tries to pay doctors and nurses less for taking care of 30 million more people.  Folks, any way you looked at it, it just didn’t add up.

Another thing I’m against that happened here in San Francisco in the first week of the New Year is that our city’s Supervisors voted unanimously to allow felons and people with serious misdemeanors to work as caregivers for the city’s In Home Supportive Services consortium for low income citizens.   While I do believe in second chances, I don’t think those chances should be in the unsupervised homes of sick and vulnerable people.  Areas of work in manufacturing, sanitation, parks departments, the trucking industry or civil service, perhaps, to name a few, would certainly be more appropriate settings for people who have violated our trust enough to be incarcerated in jails and prisons.  There’s enough senior abuse out there that we are doing a poor job of combating, due to lack of resources, that we should absolutely not be exposing these poor, indigent seniors to such a risk.

And finally, I’d like to say that our hearts and prayers go out to the citizens of Haiti as they try to survive the worst earthquake disaster anyone has seen in this part of the world.  May the people there find some small measure of comfort in knowing that many, many people in the world really do care about the tragic plight of the people of Haiti and are doing their best to mobilize the help they need to survive, heal and rebuild their lives.  May G-d bless them and the people who come to their aid.

Thanksgiving 2009

November 25th, 2009
Shirley Cohen

Shirley Cohen

This Thanksgiving, don’t forget to express your gratitude and appreciation to your caregiver.

Unlike so many other jobs, the caregiver’s job is made up of hundreds of parts and pieces, large and small.  And the small details are usually just as important as the big ones.  For instance, a good caregiver knows how to make a good cup of tea, with just the right amount of sugar.  Or, he or she knows how to cook the oatmeal so it’s not too thick or too thin.  Getting it just right will usually make the difference between a half eaten bowl of oatmeal and a completely eaten one.  Being reminded to take medicine is another example of a small but very important task that caregivers do that makes a big difference in a person’s general attitude and wellbeing.

Our best caregivers are usually the ones that know how to gracefully manage all the activities of daily living for a senior or a homebound individual.  They also know how to manage a lot of different moods, from happy to depressed, which can change at a moment’s notice.  It is not easy to teach someone how to detach themselves from the negative energy they may sometimes encounter, but our most successful, well-reviewed caregivers all happen to be able to manage our clients’ ups and downs with equanimity and skill.

We all know that care giving can be a tiring and thankless job.  That’s why it is so important to make the time to express your gratitude to your care provider.  Everyone likes to be appreciated.  Conveying your gratitude and personal acknowledgment will let the caregiver know that you appreciate their efforts.  A person who feels appreciated is usually a person who will be happy to go the extra mile for you or loved one.

So, this Thanksgiving, be sure to take the time to appreciate the wonderful work that the caregiver in your life is doing for you or your loved one.  And, if, for some reason, the work is not so wonderful, call your area’s Commission on Aging to get a listing of agencies that will work hard to find you someone who is wonderful.